Beauty is pain? Nope, stop right there. Itโs time to challenge the idea that you have to choose between style and comfortโespecially when weโre talking about shoes.
If youโre attending a formal event like a party, what do you imagine youโre wearing? Maybe you conjured up an outfit involving some sort of glamorous dress paired with sky-high heelsโbut itโs time to break free of that expectation.
The fashion world has finally caught on to the fact that not all women want to teeter around in heels for a night on the town or for formal events. Enter: dressy flats.
You might think there are situations and events that necessitate the need for heels, but there truly is a pair of dressy flats for every occasion. To make flats work with fancier attire, you need to pay attention to the proportions and cut of your clothes. The right balance of colors and lengths can take your look up a notch.
The Flats add an effortless feel to any ensemble, so why not go into your next formal event confidently wearing them, knowing the next couple of hours will be completely pain free?
Read on to find out more about how to properly style dressy flatsโor skip ahead to the section relevant to you.
Why should I wear flats with formal dresses?
If you wear high heels regularly, we salute you for your dedication. However, there are a few things you should consider before donning your favorite pair of stilettos for your next night outโthe most significant of which is your health.
High heels can be beautiful but all of that added height comes at a price. So, exactly how do high heels affect your body? These towering pieces of footwear force your feet into an unnatural angle which throws muscles, ligaments, and joints out of their proper alignment.
As a result, you might suffer lower back, neck, or shoulder pain from prolonged use of heels. If thatโs not enough to convince you to say goodbye to your pumps, the extra pressure placed on the knees, the Achillesโ heel and calf muscles may also cause injury over time. Even one night of dancing in bad heels can make you susceptible to conditions like Achillesโ tendonitis, while wearing heels every day can actually shorten your calf muscles.

And this is why, heel-lovers, itโs time to go to the flat side.
Flats allow your spine to be better aligned and encourage an unforced posture that you canโt replicate while wearing heels. Life is too short to wear uncomfortable shoes, especially if they limit your movement and cause pain.
Rocking a pair of flats means choosing not to take a break from dancing at your best friendโs wedding, walking those couple extra blocks to get the best view of the sunset, and being able to chase down your niece during an especially competitive game of tag.
But, the question remains: which womenโs dress flats do you go for? Not all shoes are created equally, after all.
Enter Rothyโs. Our sustainably made shoes are perfect for all occasions, from the most casual of get-togethers to formal, black tie events. You wonโt even need to have a spare pair of comfortable shoes at your officeโone set of Rothyโs is enough to help you power through the day.
As a bonus, you donโt need to break Rothyโs inโtheyโre comfortable right out of the box, from the very first wear. With four styles to choose from, The Flat, The Loafer, The Point and The Sneaker, you can enjoy a range of flats that complement a variety of outfits. Regardless of the event, youโll find the perfect fit.
What are the best formal dresses to wear with flats?
So, youโve made the decision to go with a pair of dressy flats instead of heels. Now youโve got to figure out what youโre wearing with them to complete the look. Below, we have suggestions for how to balance out the casual elegance of flats with different kinds of formalwear.
A-Line Skirts and Dresses
An A-line skirt or dress is the perfect accompaniment to dressy flats: the fullness of this style elevates your outfit to the next level and provides a perfect base to build on. Its flattering construction nips in at the waist and flares out at the bottom, a classic look for the girl on the go.
Add a flowy blouse, clutch, and blazer for an easy, sophisticated outfit. Pair a bold A-line dress with an equally bold pair of dressy flats like The Point in Flame.
Mini Shift
The 60s are calling; and they say you look great.
A mini shift dress is a mod approach to a formal event and we love pairing it with simple, chic dress flats. Balance out the extra skin showing in a mini shift with long sleeves, The Flat in Mink, and statement earrings for a look Twiggy herself would be proud to wear.
Pencil Skirt
Pencil skirts are a workhorse clothing choice for the busy professional who wants to elongate her body with a flattering shape and length. Pair a neutral pencil skirt and a long sleeved button-up with The Loafer in Navy to take on any board meeting with absolute confidence. We recommend choosing a lighter color shoe to help lengthen your body.
Tailored Pants
If pants are your preference, thereโs a flat for that. We like a beautifully tailored pair of pants with any style of dressy flats.
For a trendy cropped pant, The Sneaker adds a cool, unexpected touch. Or, if you want to dress like the boss you already are, you canโt go wrong with black tailored pants, a black blouse, and comfortable dressy flats like The Point in a bold color like Chili Red.
What formal occasions can I attend wearing dress flats?
The answer here, of course, is another question: what formal occasion canโt you attend while wearing dress flats? All of Rothyโs flats can be styled into an A-list ensemble. In fact, the added confidence and comfort from your Rothyโs are exactly what you need to complete your outfit.

Prom
If you want to be the belle of the ball, forgo heels in favor of some spotted pointed flats. Dancing all night is a cardio workoutโso make sure to enjoy every moment of this high school rite of passage by making comfort your number one priority. The right pair of dressy flats will keep you light on your feet all night long.
Outfit ideas: A full-length chiffon gown paired with The Point in Blush or a tea-length black dress paired with The Point in Red Botanicamo for a pop of color.

Wedding
At weddings, thereโs a good chance youโll be on your feet for a while: you have to stand for the brideโs entrance, dance the night away on the dance floor, stand in line for food or drinks, and walk to the reception area. Weddings can be quite the walking workoutโwhich is why itโs important to be wearing shoes that support all of the activities the nuptials require. Give yourself the gift of truly enjoying the experience undistracted by discomfort. We recommend pairing your attire with The Flat, The Point, or The Loafer styles depending on the rest of your outfit.
Outfit ideas: For a formal wedding, you canโt go wrong with an understated black dress paired with The Point in Marigold as an unexpected footwear choice thatโs bright and colorful. If youโre attending a more informal outdoor wedding, we suggest wearing a floral dress paired with a fun style and color like the The Loafer in Cornflower.

Cocktail Party
Headed to a cocktail party where you need to dress to the nines? We suggest wearing a classic little black dress to a cocktail party. You canโt go wrong with a time-honored classic, after all. As for your footwear, round toe flats will provide a modern addition to an iconic look.
Outfit ideas: A black mini-dress paired, minimalist gold jewelry and The Flat in Black. Or, go for a trendy jumpsuit paired with The Flat in Scooter Red.

Awards Ceremony
If youโre attending an awards ceremony, itโs time to outshine the trophies theyโre giving out that night with some sparkle of your own. Choosing the right pair of pointed toe flats will help keep your focus on your acceptance speech instead of looking for Band-Aids at the eleventh hour before youโre set to walk on stage.
Outfit ideas: A shimmering gold dress would pair beautifully with The Point in Black Solid.

Fundraising Gala
For a fundraising event, we recommend a long formal dress in satin paired with a shawl so youโll be warm but chic if it gets chilly later in the night.
Outfit ideas: We love the understated elegance of The Flat paired with a midi-length cocktail dress. Or, go for a matching set with a crop top and corresponding skirt paired with The Point. Have fun playing with different proportions, but remember, lighter colors will elongate while darker colors provide interesting lines and contrast.

Black Tie Event
Itโs time to get fancy. Understated and sophisticated are what youโre going for at a black tie event. Floor-length gowns are standard but if youโre adventurous, go for something daring. A backless dress or a semi-sheer illusion dress, for example.
Outfit ideas: A backless, floor-length dress paired with a clutch, statement earrings, and ladiesโ flat dress shoes like The Point in Night Metallic.
Whatever occasion youโre dressing up for, it doesnโt mean you have to sacrifice being comfortable. If you feel good in your footwear, youโll radiate a glow that you just canโt get while wearing bad shoes. So choose dressy flats from Rothyโsโitโs time to embrace flats as the shoe of your liberation.